Rights of Husband and Wife: According to Hadith

Rights of Husband and Wife According to Hadith a steps by step guide. While Allah, the Almighty, has emphasized on marriage and disliked anyone remaining single, He has also outlined the rights of the husband and wife. If we are mindful of these rights which Allah has defined then differences will never arise. Rather, it’ll be a highly successful life.

Love is the Key to Peace

Allah, the Almighty, has discussed the importance, aim and secret to success of a marital life in the following verse:

وَمِنْ اٰيٰتِہٖٓ اَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِّنْ اَنْفُسِكُمْ اَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوْٓا اِلَيْہَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَّوَدَّۃً وَّرَحْمَۃً اِنَّ فِيْ ذٰلِكَ لَاٰيٰتٍ لِّــقَوْمٍ يَّتَفَكَّرُوْنَ

“And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them, and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect.” (Surah Rum, 30:21).

Rights and duties of husband and wife.

Marriage is among the signs of Allah

Marriage is among the signs of Allah. It is Allah who has placed attraction and a charm for each other in the partner’s heart. Both are vital and essential for each other.

Marriage is a medium of peace and tranquility

Marriage is a medium of peace and tranquility. (لِّتَسْكُنُوْٓا اِلَيْہَا) Both husband and wife are incomplete without each other. Peace is achieved when they come together and complement each other.

The key to the foundation of this relationship is not wealth, beauty or lineage. Rather, it is attributed to love and mercy. وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَّوَدَّۃً وَّرَحْمَۃً means that human life stands firm based on love and mercy. If there is no love and mercy after marriage then it means that life is unstable.

Rights of the Wife: According to Hadith

The Prophet ﷺ said,

If I had ordered someone to prostrate to any creature, I would have ordered a woman to prostrate to her husband. By Him in Whose Power is my life! A woman is the right of her Lord
will do, until she pays all the rights of her husband (Ahmed, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah).

The Prophet ﷺ said that

The saying of the Prophet ﷺ is sublime, a woman has a great right over her husband. Such a great right that even if the husband’s whole body is injured, from which pus and blood flow, and the woman chews his injured body with her tongue, then even then her right is paid.

The Prophet ﷺ said that

when a woman performs all the five prayers strictly, fasts in Ramadan, protects
her private parts and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise through any gate of Paradise she wishes.

The Prophet ﷺ said,

“The best woman is the one whom her husband is happy to see, and when he commands
her, she obeys him and does not like what her husband says about her life and property.” , their opposition
don't (feminine)

Rights of the Husband: According to Hadith

Hazrat Imam Muhammad Baqir (a.s.) narrates that a woman came to the holy presence of the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.a.) and asked for the rights of a husband over his wife.

His eminence (s.a.w.a.) replied:

“Obey him, not to disobey him, not give anything from his house as charity without his permission, not even keep recommended fasts without his permission and submit to him. She should not step out of the house without his consent. If she steps out of the house without his consent of her husband, then all the angels of the heavens and the earth, the angels of Allah’s wrath as well as His Mercy, they curse her till she doesn’t return home.” 

Holy Prophet (s.a.w.a.) said:

“If a woman hurts her husband through her tongue, Allah shall not accept even gold and silver from her nor any of her good deeds until she pleases her husband.” 12

Hazrat Imam Ja’far Sadiq (a.s.) said:

“If a woman spends a night in a state that her husband is displeased with her, Allah shall not accept her prayers until her husband is pleased with her and if a woman applies perfume for anyone other than her husband, Allah will not accept her prayers till she does not perform ablution like the obligatory ablution.” 

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